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Trust is what ties a relationship together.
An affair is what destroys the trust. With out the trust you really have no relationship.
Affairs are becoming more popular by the day.

When I am hired to conduct surveillance on a spouse that is suspected cheating I only obtain the facts. Whether good or bad, it's what I get. I am not here to destroy families or relationships, I pass over the truth. When a spouse carries a feeling around every minute of the day that her husband might be cheating she has to live with that horrible feeling. Rarely will a cheating spouse admit to what is going on till there is factual evidence to prove the affair. When she hires a private investigator who finds out the facts and informs her of what is really going on she can then make her decision.

If she never finds out the answers then she has to live in her relationship without trust and always the empty unanswered feeling of "did he?"
When I can produce those truthful answers and show direct evidence she is then able to settle her mind and the husband has to admit to the affair.

Learning that an affair occurred in a relationship does not mean it is the end of the relationship. Communication is so important and I cant stress enough on how important. I know couples who have survived the affairs and rebuilt the trust and valued their relationships and made them even stronger. It can happen! Both partners need to value and want the relationship to work using daily effort, counseling, communication and love and the want to rebuild. With all of this the chances of surviving the affair is much greater.
TO THE POINT

I am disgusted that there are dating sites on the internet that aids in helping others commit affairs. WOW! Can that actually be a legal thing in a state that adultery is considered a crime?

Just to name a few but I won't include any links because I am against the sites:

Loving links, Cyber cheating Wives, Abundant Love and the biggest one to hit the media Ashley Madison.
Sick Sick Sick!

Think I will be hitting the books and making computer forensics my new specialty because online affairs is on the rise!

If you suspect your spouse is cheating there are some things to do on your own to help find an answer:

Check out the cell phone
Numbers that are not known to you...Look them up
Obtain phone bills and pick them apart
Text messaging and picture mail
Check out the computer
Search history files
Hidden files and pictures
Emails
Pull up all of the cookies

If all else fails,,,,, Add the cheating spouse to WomenSavers.com or just hire a private investigator!